From the Archives: A tale of two Grahams: One has success, the other struggles

Originally published in July 27, 2008 – Earnest Graham wrote a letter to a judge last summer about his younger brother’s prison sentencing.

Graham made no mention of his occupation — he’s a running back for the Tampa Bay Buccaneers. He did not urge the judge to give Brandon Graham a lenient sentence for drug dealing.

Earnest Graham instead asked the judge to give Brandon enough time in prison to learn the life lessons he needs in order to re-enter society changed and reformed.

Tampa Bay Buccaneers running back Earnest Graham, left, with his brother, Brandon, at prison February 2008. Brandon Graham is serving a prison sentence for distribution of crack cocaine.

Brandon Graham, 26, received a 70-month sentence Aug. 20. That day, Earnest, 28, practiced with his Buccaneer teammates, preparing for a preseason game against the Miami Dolphins.

“Honestly, my brother has escaped a lot of troubles,” Earnest wrote to the judge. “In today’s world, it’s sad to say, but people were drawn to him because of this, and I think my brother misjudged the attention he was receiving.”

“As his brother, I do have to say I am hoping that the courts give him enough time to learn his lesson, nothing more, nothing less. He is ready to change, and I can tell that he has already started the process.”

As part of that process, Earnest and Brandon Graham decided to share their story. It is a story of brotherly love, of making mistakes and, ultimately, of paying for them.

It is a story that centers on choices — how one brother made the right choices and how the other now must atone for the wrong choices.

It is a story they want to share, in the hope that the youth of Fort Myers — and their parents — pay attention.

Violent lifestyles prevail in various areas of Fort Myers. Five local teenagers were arrested and charged with the murder of Washington Redskins safety Sean Taylor last year, and a rash of violent crime this year has prompted the Graham brothers to tell their story.

“If one mom can be spared what I have had to go through, it will be worth it,” said Sandra Smith, mother of Brandon and Earnest as well as their older brother and sister, Shawn Pope and Alfreka Bullard.

Smith loves all of her children equally. She said she would not wish the heartache she feels when visiting Brandon in prison on anyone.

“Some people take longer to get to where they’re going in life,” Smith said, referring to Brandon, whom she deems a good person who made grave errors in judgment. “People have the right to their own opinion. I just think people have misjudged Brandon.”

All four of Smith’s children graduated from Mariner High School in Cape Coral, where Pope, Earnest and Brandon were star running backs. Earnest graduated in 1998; Brandon in 2000.

Three of her four children stayed out of trouble.

Brandon, her youngest, strayed from the right path, and Smith has no answer for it.

Related Posts

Hoy es mi cumpleaños ¡me encantaría recibir un poco de cariño de ustedes!

Hoy es un día muy especial para mí, ya que celebro mi cumpleaños y me encantaría compartir este momento con ustedes. Cada año, en mi cumpleaños, reflexiono sobre lo afortunado que soy de tener amigos y seres queridos que hacen mi vida más rica y …

Read more

50+ Stunning Butterfly Tattoos for Women That Will Captivate Your Imagination

Learn about the beautiful world of butterfly tattoos, which combine a sense of grace and beauty with a deep meaning for women. This piece will talk about the many meanings of butterfly tattoos and how they are linked to the feminine world. Butterflies …

Read more

Perfecciona tu Manicura con Estas 35 Ideas Impresionantes de Diseño de Uñas

Cuando se trata de manicuras, existen infinitas opciones. Pero para darle una guía sobre por dónde empezar, estas son algunas de las mejores ideas en línea. No querrás caer en la madriguera de Internet, ¿no? ¡Así que ahórrese un tiempo precioso …

Read more

Una conmovedora historia de rehabilitación, abandono y el tierno abrazo que recibe un perro fuerte y resiliente.

Desafortunadamente, algunas personas no saben cómo cuidar a sus mascotas y no saben que estos animales también experimentan emociones. El pequeño Koki estaba en el mismo caso. El valiente perro fue apadrinado por sus dueños y abandonado a su suerte …

Read more

Chic and Trendy Star Tattoo Designs for Women

If you are considering getting a star tattoo and are looking for inspiration for an elegant and beautiful design, you are in the right place. Star tattoos are a popular choice among women due to their versatility and symbolism. Here are some creative …

Read more

Ideas de uñas en un suave tono rosa que te atraerán a primera vista.

Las uñas en un suave tono rosa son una opción encantadora y versátil que nunca pasa de moda. Este delicado color no solo evoca una sensación de elegancia y feminidad, sino que también se adapta a diversas ocasiones, desde eventos formales hasta …

Read more

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *